29. How dare you! From Hero to Villain: The Changing Role of a Parent.


From the moment you first laid eyes on your child, it was the happiest day of your life.

You watched as they learned to say “mama” and “dada,” and you marveled as they discovered their hands, feet, and even their reflection.

Then, they began to crawl, expand their vocabulary, stand for the first time, take their first steps, and eventually walk, jump, and run.

They started school, and you helped with homework, made sure they were safe, and ensured they were stimulated both mentally and physically. You protected them with everything you had, making sure no harm came their way.

And then one day, suddenly, you become the worst thing in the world. You watch as your child shows more empathy and consideration to a stray cat than to you.

Heaven help you if you need something done. How dare you, as a parent, ask your child for even a single thing.

“HOW DARE YOU!”

“Mum, leave me alone!”

Published by Diary of a seriously fcked off parent

I’m a lone parent navigating life with two teenage girls who hit puberty right in the middle of the Pandemic. This journey has been anything but ordinary, and these pages are my survival story—one filled with moments of struggle, growth, and resilience. It’s been a wild ride, but somehow, we’re making it through together.

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